Proverbs 16:32 & Proverbs 25:28
If left unchecked, our desires can lead
us down the path of making regretful decisions.
Introduction:
Living wisely means surrendering your impulses to God; having a long-range view
that prioritizes your eternal relationship with Him instead of just doing what feels
good in the moment.
Starting Out:
Are you an impulsive spender, or do you thoroughly research every buying
decision?
Following up:
How did you make your Oikos a priority this week?
Proverbs 16:32:
1. What immediately captures your attention about this verse?
2. What do you think it means to be “slow to anger”?
3. Why do you think Solomon claims impulse control is better than being mighty?
4. What does it mean to “rule your spirit”?
Proverbs 25:28:
5. Why do you think self-control is so important to Solomon?
6. How is a lack of self-control like a ransacked city?
7. What do you think is the significance of being “left without walls”?
8. Why do many people, including Christians, tend to look at “walls” (rules,
safeguards, etc.) as negative things?
Taking It Home:
9. How effective are you at controlling your emotions and impulses?
10. Have your walls of defense collapsed?
11. What can you do to maintain or strengthen your walls of protection?
12. What are some practical ways you can rebuild your wall this week?
Emphasis on Oikos:
13. When people in your Oikos ask you why they should follow Christ or go to church
with you, what do you tell them?
Other Scriptures to engage with this week:
James 1:1-18 • Romans 12:1-8 • Ephesians 4:17-32 • Matthew 25:14-30 • Genesis 4:1-26 • Psalm 141:1-10